Welcome to my new website

Hello Fluffy`s.

Welcome to my new website. This is the free version. I used the wordpress business plan for my previous website to sell my eBook, and it was too expensive.

I’m trying to figure out where I can sell my eBook for free. I’m thinking about opening an etsy shop.

Sincerely
Solfrid

Difficult Times

Hello Fluffy Teddy Bears

It`s difficult times because of the war that we are fighting at this very moment. The Corona virus. I don't know how this will affect me individually, but I know I don't have the same freedom to create ASMR videos as I normally do.

The situation that we're in gives me a lot of anxiety. Not knowing how this will affect me, my family, the community and my country makes me stressed out, and I feel mentally and physically unwell. 

I have come to the point where I have to try to push myself to stay away from the news  during the day, because I found myself sitting on my phone way to much lately reading updates after updates that makes me even more unwell.

I never experience something like this before. I knew about the virus for a month or two, but over night drastic changes happened in my country, and it has not stopped yet. I'm happy our government takes action to stop the virus from spreading, and I do hope that this will be over soon. 

I have had a little mini cold the last days. Just a little bit sore throat, and runny nose, so I should not go out, just in case I’m  infected with the virus. 

Hope you all are staying safe, both for yourself and others. Take care!

Best Regards
Solfrid

 

 

How To Support My Channel Not For Free

Hello Fluffy Teddy BearsSo I thought to myself I would just go in and share with you how you can support my YouTube channel Solfrid ASMR not for free (only if you feel you must), as I previously made a post on how to support my channel for free. If you don’t feel like it for any reasons, you should definitely not do it, and you should not defend it either, simple as that! I also assume you can terminate your membership whenever you want, but I recommend you read the terms and conditions before choosing to do so, because I haven’t done it myself to be honest. You must also be a grown up. I would not recommend you doing this if you are much younger than me. You should be 30+ or late 20. That is what I prefer. Don’t take me wrong. I appreciate all my subs, but I’m not comfortable with the thought of children spending money on me, and to me young adults are still a child in some sense. I will probably look at people in their thirties as a child as well when I get even older. Basically we all are children or have the child within us. It is well intended, so don’t take it the wrong way! I just have good intention, and I have just been there myself, so it comes out of a place of humility. 

So the first thing is that I want to let you know I’m considering letting my fans become a member of my YouTube channel. I get a lot of anxiety around this topic, because I’m scared to the point of not feeling good at all that stalkers (haters, obsessive people) will join and bother me like crazy and start to complain and make demands, so this is something that it is important for you to keep in mind. I will be really careful on how I will connect. There will not be any personal interaction, though I will be interacting with you in my own way. This to keep the stalkers away. 

I will share behind the scene photos of me preparing the video, and also I will share teasers of all my videos on this page, so you know what’s up next. I will still share some teasers on instagram as well, but those will not really be teasers because I will most likely share them after I published the video on my Youtube channel Solfrid ASMR. 

Become a member if you:

– If you want to

– Have been a subscriber for a long time and never got offended by how I’m as a person 

– If you really enjoy my content and use it on a regular basis

– If I’m one of your favorite ASMR artist

Do NOT become a member:

– If you dont feel like it

– If you don’t like me or get easily offended

– If you are not sure you will be able to not complain, nag or make any demands 

 So yeah Fluffy`s. I’m excited to try this membership thing out on my YouTube channel. 

You will se the «JOIN» button next to the «Subscriber» button. 

Happy saturday, as this is the day I write to you, and take care!

Best Wishes and thoughts!
Solfrid

How To Support My Channel For Free

Hello Fluffy`s!

It`s been a hot second since I posten a new post on my Solfrid ASMR webpage, but I just want to let you know something, and that goes like this:

If you enjoy my videos and want to support my channel please watch my YouTube adds, and play my playlists when or if you feel like it. If you don’t feel like it, for any reasons, you should not do it!! If there is any videos you like in particular I would really appreciate if you share my video link on your other platforms as well.

This is just me trying to make you aware that this is possible and that its really makes a big difference for me.

The biggest support is just you wanting to watch my videos, but that is something you shouldn’t do if it didn’t come naturally of course. So thank you so much for watching my ASMR content. It`s not a matter of course, and I do appreciate it!

Happy weekend and stay safe and true to yourself always

Best wishes and thoughts!

Solfrid ❤

On a Different Path

Hello Fluffy`s

I have been asked about ASMR videos I made in the past that is gone from the public. There is a reason for that, and I might remove some more as well eventually.
I dont feel comfortable having this videos public anymore, because I have changed and some videos makes me uncomfortable and I find them inappropriate to my standards and personal growth.

I’m fine with the thought of me making them in the past, but I don’t identify with that person anymore. It was a phase that now is over and I have grown, and I’m on a different path. Maybe I could call it a more grown up path, a more appropriate, motherly path.

I see now that I most likely had a subconsciously over the top seductive, sexual energy in several of my videos, something I don’t think I never consciously wanted, so now that I see this clearly, and also know more, I choose to move away from that behavior and into something that feels more healthy and real to me.

I’m asking myself what kind of vibes and energy I want to send out to the world, and it`s definitely not a sexual, seductive energy.
Im not saying it is wrong (because who am I to judge really), only that it is not me anymore. Everyone are on their own journey and path and I’m just trying to focus on my path, and striving to become the best version of myself.

Some might find my new style of videos borring and don’t want to support my channel anymore, but at least I’m true to myself and will attract the right kind of people to my channel for the future.

When I started my channel I was struggling and my channel became my greatest comfort.
I appreciate the progress, learning curve and growth I went through and still goes through.

I wish you all the very best!

Take care of yourself!

Best
Solfrid

Goodbye

Sometimes in life you don’t get a second chance.
Or maybe you yourself don’t give yourself that second chance.
A chance to say I’m sorry.
A chance to say Thank you.
A chance to say Goodbye.

I`m sorry…
Thank you…

Goodbye…

In Celebration Of Midsummer Day

Hello Fluffy Teddy Bears

Today June 23, 2019 we celebrate midsummer day «sankthansaften» by giving you 50% discount on my eCookbook. I’m not sure if the dates for celebration are different from country to country for this particular day but in my dear homeland it is today.

If you choose to buy the eBook, or any other day really I appreciate your support! Thank you so much!

Have a wonderful day and weekend!

Take care!

Best
Solfrid

I Need To Put Myself First

Hello my Fluffy Teddy Bears

I’m sorry if it makes you feel sad, it sucks, but I need to think about myself as well Fluffy.
Becoming a mom makes it feels like I`m not only fighting for myself anymore. I have some big responsibilites in this thing called life.

So what is this really about?

It came to the point where I had to put more ads into my videos. Not only in the beginning or at the end, but in the middle. The ad revenue went far down to almost nothing, so much down where it came to the point where I could not look at it as a proper job, a proper income.
Here is the thing, I really want my ASMR channel to be my job, and if that’s not possible it would only become a hobby where I would not be able to connect with you on a regular basis, maybe it would stop completely because I only have that much time on my hand. It came to the point where I thought to myself, «I will try to put more ads into my videos (one ad in the middle of my newest videos) and see if that helps, and if not I’m done making so much effort, putting up content regularly if I don’t get anything back. I will have to find something else to do, something where I can make a living for myself and my family. Something appropriate of course. It is a risk, but a risk worth taking because I have nothing more to loose. «

I could feel the resistance from some in my audience putting ads into my videos. I lost subscribers over it, some made comments about it, but as I said, the revenue went so far down that it did not matter to me anymore. I was on the verge of quitting. I was sick and tired of not earning a proper living from a pretty big channel that I’ve created for myself. A channel that I’m really proud of. A channel with many subscribers, many views where I should be able to earn a proper living. Seeing people turn their back on me because of this hurt my feelings really bad. It actually upset me. Like «so you only want to watch my videos if I’m the only one giving. Giving and giving and giving. » Yes. I must admit I got some really negative sad feelings and thoughts there for a second. But I managed to pick myself up, thinking positive by the help of mindfulness and self love. You see… I’m not perfect, I can get hurt as well and get destructive thoughts and emotions. It was not many that left my side, pretty few actually, but for some reason I made notice of it anyway and became really self aware of the situation.

So yes Fluffys. Im sorry I have to do this, but it has come to the point where I need to put adds in the middle of my videos. If you don’t like it you can get YouTube premium and then there will not be any ads there anymore. By this you will support me and those you have subscribed to as well.

If someone puts to many ads in their videos I will not watch the video because it gets to distracting, but I’m totally fine with some now and then throughout the video. I even watch adds now and then when I enjoy a video and have time to give my support, because I now for myself how important it is for the creator, and I prefer to not see the creator gone.

I totally understand that you don’t like ads, but I ask you to see where I’m coming from with all of this as well. I absolutely love creating ASMR for you. I want this to be my job, so then I have to make sure to make it my job as well. At least make the best effort that I can. This is what I’m doing now. Fighting for myself. Its called Self-Love. I`m fighting to be able to show up every week to give you relaxation and tingles, and what I ask of you is to understand.

If you don’t want to support me anymore because of the adds I respect it and I understand it, but it has to be like this, at least until I see that I’m able to remove the ads in the middle. Maybe when I get more views. When my channel gets bigger.

I have been here since December 2015. In the beginning I had no ads at all. Than I gradually gave myself the permission to make this my job and put some ads in the beginning and at the end of the videos. Three years went by, earning very little. I was ok with that, because it was something and I was managing. But then the revenue dropped really, and it became really demotivating seeing my channel growing, but my earnings dropping.

I always knew that in this game called YouTube you have to be patient, and you really have to enjoy what you’re doing to succeed, but I have also learned that there can be great potential that you don’t see, and its up to me to explore this potential and give myself permission to thrive.
I see that putting adds in the middle of my videos helps me. It really do. The revenue is slowly growing, and I hope it will continue to do so.

If I dont stand up for myself no one else will

This is me standing up for myself. Deserving something I must give to myself, and you should to. Remember to always stand up for yourself, because you are worth it!

If you want something you must give it to yourself. Remember that.

I really appreciate my job as a YouTuber. I really do! I want it to be my job, and so it will be.

I also want to mention that I’ve opened my Patreon account again. I will start to post exclusive 1 hour long, add free content to this page once every month when I have reached my community goal. Patrons will only be charged per creation, meaning once per month when I start to create. This is also my back up plan if for some reason YouTube does not work for me anymore, and if theres enough Fluffy`s that still want me to create ASMR content.

Okidoki Fluffy`s. Thank you so much for taking your time to read this. I appreciate you.

Have a wonderful day or night, take good care of yourself.

Best
Solfrid

Book Recommendation

Who are you really?

«The untethered soul» by Michael A. Singer

We all want to feel love, we all want to feel safe. We don’t want pain, suffering and to be afraid. All this thoughts and feelings can be so self destroying if we ´re not conscious about it. But how can we be more self aware, help ourself in a world full og suffering and pain? Well… I have found something that works for me. When I understand how things work inside of myself, it is easier for me to make small steps towards change.
Pretty please understand that I have a long road ahead of me. A road called life, a road called self development and progress. I`ts an never-ending process, and I appreciate it for what it is.

I have found that reading books, self-helps books gives me more insight, a deeper understanding and wisdom to turn my life around and make it the very best. There are so many wise people out there that I urge to learn from.

Thoughts creates feelings, feelings creates actions, and actions creates results. That is something I try to remember all the time, because my thoughts have led me in the wrong direction many times in life, created terrible results for myself. But I appreciate the learning process. There can be something beautiful even in failing. Thoughts have kept me up all night, thoughts have made me scared, anxious, sad, frustrated… you name it. Don`t underestimate thoughts. There`s so much energy that goes into thinking, energy that could be spent on living life. Thoughts has given me positive feelings as well of course. Thoughts are necessary to function in this world, but I believe it`s very important to be conscious with what thoughts you invite in, and what thoughts you choose to let pass by. Keeping that in mind it can lead you on the road of present moment, here and now. Not the past, not future. Just here and now. You are not your feelings and thoughts, but the observer of your thoughts and feelings.
Happiness is not found in what`s in front of you, but rather inside… probably behind you.

Well well well that is a summary of my interpretation of the book «The untethered soul» by Michael A. Singer. It is a wonderful book, so much wisdom, so much comfort. It gave me so much to read that book, and I want to read it again and again to really understand and remember. I will take notes next time, and I recommend you to read it as well. Such a beautiful well written book. Probably the best book I ever read so far.

Life is such a mysterium, and so it probably should be to make it interesting, beautiful and worth living, but I feel that I have come one step closer to the truth, one step closer to myself, and that is sure a good feeling. Life will end sooner or later for every living creature, so why not make the best of it now when we have the chance. Live life fully in awareness.

Who are we really behind it all?

Who are you?

Have a wonderful day Fluffy`s!

Best
Solfrid